Sunday, January 20, 2013

Teen Mom Janelle Evans PREGNANT AGAIN!

You know out of all the mom's on Teen Mom 2 you would think that Teen Mom Janelle Evans would have done whatever it took to make sure she didn't end up pregnant again!

Considering her situation with her First child, Jace, I don't think it is a good idea for her to bring another child into the world. I don't want to recommend abortion cause that is a subject I just don't wanna touch, but I would recommend she consider adoption.

Adoption is not always a bad thing. I know from personal experience. I was a Teen Mother so I have a good idea of what I am talking about. I was 16 when I gave birth to my first child, a son. I was 18 when I gave my second child up for adoption because I, like Janelle, was not being a good mom. My mother & father raised my son and I am happy to say I am glad they did. Because my life choices were stupid and immature. I also had a problem with drugs and partying. I made the choice to give my second child up for adoption because I was in no place to take care of another child nor did I want my parents to have to raise another and I knew I couldn't provide a good life for that child either. I knew then it was best for the child to be given to a family that was well off and would take good care of him and give him a life I couldn't give him.
I even found a family that was open to "open adoption". Meaning we are still in contact to this day. Now don't get me wrong, it may have been a good choice for the child but I still have to live with my decisions which is hard. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about my son and wish I could have provided for him, but what is done is done and all that matters is that he is with an awesome family and is happy.

Now I am older (34) and am definitely not the same person I was when I was a teenager. I now have a 6 year old daughter who I am determined to provide for and take care of. I am determined to do what ever I can for her and take care of her the best way I possibly can. I am also very close with my son that I had when I was 16 that my mother & father raised. He is 18 now and he has turned out to be a very good man. I lucked out with him and cherish our relationship.

I just hope Janelle takes a moment to consider her lifestyle and makes the best choice for the child whether she keeps the baby or considers adoption (which I personally think is best) considering her lifestyle and habits. Just because she is married doesn't mean she is ready to be a mom to another child when she doesn't even take care of her first child.

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